Expects A Servant

An emotional abuser goes through life feeling entitled to be treated like royalty, and wants you to be a willing servant. He or she expects you to do everything and will not help at all.

Instills Fear

If you feel fear around your partner or spouse, there is something very wrong. Abusers may try to intimidate you with violence, dominance and power tactics. They try to make you feel as though they are always right, and you are wrong. At times the abuser may appear to be apologetic and loving; the abuse begins again when the abuser feels they have your forgiveness.

Alcohol And Substance Abuse

Not all abusers use drugs or drink excessive alcohol, but many do. An addiction can lead to erratic  and inappropriate behavior. Substance abuse can be a gateway to emotional abuse and an unhealthy relationship.