An Open Letter To My Future Fiance: I Am Not Like Other Women!

I cannot wait to start my life with you!

Hello Love,

The reason I am writing this today is because I can’t stop thinking about you, and I can’t stop myself from imagining how happy we will be. Let this letter be a promise to you that I will do my best to be the woman I want to be for you.

I may not yet know all of the difficulties that come with a lifetime commitment, but I have enough relationship experience to know what I want and how I will picture my life with the person I commit to you. I promise to do my best to keep you happy, so count on my surprises. I feel “Blessed” to have a person like you in my life. I promise to make each morning blissful and every night wonderful.

I promise to always look at you with the same adoration as I did the more I realized I loved you. I promise to try to ignite the same sparkle in your eyes I see when you are surprised, inspired, motivated and when you are about to lean in to kiss me.

I promise to hold your hand when we’re 80 years old with the same warmth that I did when I crossed that line to hold your hands for the first time. I swear never to let the pleasure of dating me die down; I will surprise you with the location, the reason or the activity itself.

I promise to keep you guessing about where we will holiday next. I promise to do my best always to show you importance in my life. I will keep reinventing myself, cultivating new hobbies, and discovering new ways and new interests to keep you – and myself – entertained.

I promise to have new stories to share with you, and maybe I’ll go over the best ones all over again if you insist. Our relationship and love will continue to grow for each other over the years. Even in grief and darkness, I promise to show you different shades of dark, and to help you find the tiny rays of light that I’m always going to make sure it never leaves your site. After all, there’s always worse than worst and better than best; everything is relative.

I promise to kiss you throughout our life together, with the same passion and feelings I had the first time I felt my lips on yours. When we kiss, I want to slow down time – just you and I engulfed in our feelings.  I promise to play the games you like to play. I promise to help you remain healthy, both physically and mentally. I will cook and clean for us.

I promise to do my best to love your family as much as you love them and to be by their side as much as I am by yours. I will always listen to you especially then when you’re not comfortable with talking to anyone else, and to the things you try to tell me when you’re not even speaking. I promise to always listen. I promise to do everything for you without taking away your freedom physically, mentally or emotionally.

I promise to rediscover the moment I realised that I would forever be in the most magnetic, amorous and evocative love with you.


With loads of love,

Your future better half and best friend

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