Frankly, living with an over-possessive man can be a nightmare. But many women equate possessiveness to proof that the man loves her madly. Anyway, if your man is the jealous, over-protective type, confessing about your exes and your colourful past is certain to destroy your relationship. Make no mistake about that. It will come up again and again, and all you will face is misery.
Some secrets are best left buried
You may be madly in love with your partner. He may seem to be the coolest guy on earth. He may know about a couple of your ex-boyfriends. But if you’ve been burning up the sheets with a host of lovers, or have an ex who was married, do you really think your ex would embrace it with just a raised eyebrow? Think again. There are some things in our past that should stay right there – in the past, never to be resurrected and confessed to a potential husband in a moment of weakness. Remember, some secrets can destroy a relationship and blow it to smithereens.