5. Play some games:
By games, a good sensual roleplaying game would be the preferred suggestion. Every individual would have a fantasy that would surely turn them on. And, they would really want their partner to live as the fantasy character that they imagine. So, speak openly to them and take some effort to play dress-up to spice things up. In case their fantasy is a fictitious character, you can adorn a sexier version of the costume to make things even more exciting and enjoyable.