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Losing A Parent Is A Major Downfall: Amala Paul’s Heartbreaking Story Will Win Your Heart!

Amala Paul pens down an emotional letter that talks about the pain of losing a father!

Actress Amala Paul lost her father Paul Varghese only recently. The 61-year-old had been fighting cancer for a very long time now. On hearing the heart-wrenching news, Amala, who was shooting in Mumbai flew to Kochi to be with her family and attend the Last Rights. Amala Paul’s PR team took it to social media to inform her fans and followers too.

After quite sometime, Amala has opened up about dealing with the loss of a parent and it is very heart-wrenching. “LOSING A PARENT is a feeling that cannot be described, it’s a MAJOR DOWNFALL and you begin to TRANSCEND into the UNKNOWN DARKNESS and experience varied emotions. Losing my PAPPA to CANCER OPENED a whole new DIMENSION IN MY LIFE. It made me realize so many things. Here’s one such thought!
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We live in a big beautiful world. Like the Yin to the Yang, we also live in a world carved out by ‘SOCIETAL NORMS’ that DICTATE our EVERY MOVE and EVERY THOUGHT. We start getting CONDITIONED from a very YOUNG AGE and SHUT OURSELVES through the TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES and LOCK parts of our INNER-CHILD in to these BOXES. .
Unfortunately in the RAT RACE TO THE TOP, we often AREN’T TAUGHT to LOVE OURSELVES. We don’t ALLOW ourselves to OPEN THESE BOXES and HEAL our INNER-CHILD from these TRAUMAS and conditioning. .
We shift from RELATIONSHIP after RELATIONSHIP, craving for company and searching for the missing ‘HALF’ in PEOPLE, THINGS, CAREER, SUBSTANCES, MOMENTARY PLEASURES, EXPERIENCES all a mean to ESCAPE OUR TRUE-SELVES only to be left more emptied. .
WHEN WILL WE LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES AS A ‘WHOLE’ AND
FULLY EMBRACE THE DARK, LIGHT, GOOD, BAD, HAPPINESS, EMPTINESS, VULNERABILITIES ,PAIN, INSECURITIES, FEARS ?
.
Yes I have decided to WHOLEHEARTEDLY accept this and COURAGEOUSLY WALK THE PATH LESS TRAVELED.. no more ESCAPE! .
MOST IMP – THE WOMEN we grew up looking up to have forgotten that they’re as important as their family. Our MOTHERS have really forgotten to LOVE THEMSELVES, let alone HEALING!! They spend their whole life taking care of their HUSBAND, CHILDREN, FAMILY and NEVER FOR ONCE STOP to do SOMETHING for THEMSELVES.
It’s our responsibility to educate and make them understand about loving and nurturing their INNER-SELF BEFORE THEY LOSE THEMSELVES FOREVER!!
I almost lost myself and my mom to the verge of DEPRESSION but here we are gearing up to FLY LIKE A PHOENIX in to transformation THROUGH LOVE AND HEALING.
.
Thanks to my constant support system, my dearest BROTHER for all that he is and especially for making my CHILDHOOD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES very entertaining and still continuing to do that 😂🙄💙
Lots of love and healing to all the broken hearts 💟,” she wrote.

 

 

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LOSING A PARENT is a feeling that cannot be described, it’s a MAJOR DOWNFALL and you begin to TRANSCEND into the UNKNOWN DARKNESS and experience varied emotions. Losing my PAPPA to CANCER OPENED a whole new DIMENSION IN MY LIFE. It made me realize so many things. Here’s one such thought! . We live in a big beautiful world. Like the Yin to the Yang, we also live in a world carved out by ‘SOCIETAL NORMS’ that DICTATE our EVERY MOVE and EVERY THOUGHT. We start getting CONDITIONED from a very YOUNG AGE and SHUT OURSELVES through the TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES and LOCK parts of our INNER-CHILD in to these BOXES. . Unfortunately in the RAT RACE TO THE TOP, we often AREN’T TAUGHT to LOVE OURSELVES. We don’t ALLOW ourselves to OPEN THESE BOXES and HEAL our INNER-CHILD from these TRAUMAS and conditioning. . We shift from RELATIONSHIP after RELATIONSHIP, craving for company and searching for the missing ‘HALF’ in PEOPLE, THINGS, CAREER, SUBSTANCES, MOMENTARY PLEASURES, EXPERIENCES all a mean to ESCAPE OUR TRUE-SELVES only to be left more emptied. . WHEN WILL WE LEARN TO LOVE OURSELVES AS A ‘WHOLE’ AND FULLY EMBRACE THE DARK, LIGHT, GOOD, BAD, HAPPINESS, EMPTINESS, VULNERABILITIES ,PAIN, INSECURITIES, FEARS ? . Yes I have decided to WHOLEHEARTEDLY accept this and COURAGEOUSLY WALK THE PATH LESS TRAVELED.. no more ESCAPE! . MOST IMP – THE WOMEN we grew up looking up to have forgotten that they’re as important as their family. Our MOTHERS have really forgotten to LOVE THEMSELVES, let alone HEALING!! They spend their whole life taking care of their HUSBAND, CHILDREN, FAMILY and NEVER FOR ONCE STOP to do SOMETHING for THEMSELVES. It’s our responsibility to educate and make them understand about loving and nurturing their INNER-SELF BEFORE THEY LOSE THEMSELVES FOREVER!! I almost lost myself and my mom to the verge of DEPRESSION but here we are gearing up to FLY LIKE A PHOENIX in to transformation THROUGH LOVE AND HEALING. . Thanks to my constant support system, my dearest BROTHER for all that he is and especially for making my CHILDHOOD TRAUMATIC EXPERIENCES very entertaining and still continuing to do that 😂🙄💙 Lots of love and healing to all the broken hearts 💟

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Amala had earlier talked about her father not wanting her to take up a career in acting even though he was very much a part of the theater during his college days. It was her brother Abhijith Paul who supported Amala throughout her choice of choosing a career in acting.

Our deepest condolences to the actress and her family on their personal loss.

On the professional front, Amala Paul recently released the teaser of her next in Kollywood titled Adho Andha Paravai Pola. Apart from that, Amala has the anthology of Lust Stories which is being made in Telugu, Aadujeevitham alongside Prithviraj in Malayalam and yet another film titled Cadaver in Tamil.

 

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