Marriage is a part of life for those who are interested in getting into a wedlock. However, a wedding brings about a big change in one’s life and those few months of bachelor life is absolutely important to live it to your fullest. We provide you with a list of must do’s that will make you never regret wasting your bachelor months. Here is a list of 7 things you could do before you get married:
1. Go for a trip with your friends: Of course, there will be no restrictions post-wedding for you to travel with your friends but your emotions will be completely different. You will always be worried about what your hubby is up to and whether he is taking good care of himself. So, plan an amazing trip with your friends, preferably out of the country which will not just allow you to explore an entirely new culture and place but also keep you away from the society and your worries.
2. Spend a lot of time with your family: Family is very important at this point in time. You are currently in the process of building a family of your own and there are chances that your family, especially your parents and your siblings might become unwaveringly very possessive of you. Make sure you spend tons of time with your parents, siblings and your cousins. They have been with you since you were a baby and deserve all your attention now and forever. Take them for dinners and cook them. Play games with them and basically just spend loads of time at home.
3. Laze around your favorite place a lot: Your favorite place could be anything beginning from a park new your place to an eating joint at a mall. Embrace that place of yours a lot all by yourself. Take your loved ones your happy place and narrate the story of why this is the place you love the most. Even if it’s your room in your home, tell them what memories it holds. Watch movies, eat, sleep, dance, sing and do whatever you want. Do not worry about what others will think of the crazy new you.
4. Eat, drink, sleep and repeat: Oh yes, this is something you will really miss post-wedding. You might just miss your mom’s food and might stay immune to any other food, you might be sleep deprived and wat not. So make the most out of these few months and eat a lot of home food, cook something for your loved ones in return, go enjoy some ‘golgappas’ on a roadside shop, sleep for 14 hours straight and do not regret it. Drink whatever you want (varies from a strawberry milkshake to vodka shots) and just repeat the three to your heart’s content.
5. Give yourself some “me” time: Most important out of all the other points is this. Spend some time examining your inner self, peace, your future, your career and stay relaxed. This sort of brings in some self-control which will also help you make sane decisions post wedding. Make sure you think about everything you ever wanted to. Sit idle for hours, get yourself a makeover, go for a walk all by yourself and also keep your mind blank.
6. Face one fear: There must be at least one fear within you and you can do something or the other to erase it off forever. For example, if your fear is heights, go for a trekking to the top of a mountain or go paragliding. If you’re scared of insects, just shoo away one of the scariest ones or if you’re scared of darkness to go lock yourself in a dark room and just lie down. It’s all a part of an adrenaline rush. So we might as well just do it.
7. Keep yourself fit: Workout! It’s the mantra to not just stay healthy and fit but also de-stresses you. So work out hard, Go gymming, swimming, cycling, trekking and what not to keep yourself happy and healthy. IF this becomes a habit it can help you relieve from pre-wedding and post-wedding stress.
8. Live alone in a different city: Although this does become a part of the “me” time. It’s always good to go live all by yourself o your earnings in a different city. It not just allows you to taste loneliness but also helps you understand the value of a lot of things starting from money to relationships in life. A long-distance relationship with your partner also helps you understand the true depth of your relationship too.