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6 Foreplay suggestions to spice up your Sex life!

Having an intimate time with our partners has become increasingly difficult with the current busy lifestyle that we all have. Being actually aroused before having sex is even more rare. Sex without arousal makes intimacy a mood killer, right? Foreplay is extremely important, as it sets the mood for a good intimate experience. Foreplay is important as it triggers physiological as well as physical responses that make sexual activities possible and enjoyable. To have a pleasurable sexual experience, here are 6 foreplay suggestions:

 

1. Kissing:

Well, you may think that kissing is the most basic thing one goes for before diving into sex. But, Kissing done the right way can by itself be an effective foreplay technique to get the boat smooth sailing. Kissing can be slow, fast, soft passionate or even deep. You can even get creative and kiss your partner in places they would have never expected. The surprise element really helps to brighten things up in bed.

2. Use your hands creatively:

Your hands are an essential and important tool during foreplay. You can use your hands on your partner’s body or even on your own body, creatively. No matter where and how you use your hands, ensure that your partner is comfortable with the touches. Also ensure that your hands are clean, in case you get too intimate with the touches. Let go of all inhibitions, and use your hands freely to arouse yourself and your partner.

3. Take a shower/bath together:

There is nothing like taking a hot shower or bath together to set the mood for good sex. Using hot water makes it even more steamy and it gets easier for you to get comfortable with each other, especially naked. You could also use a bathtub to relax in together, and  make out with your partner to spice up things. Use scented soaps and bath bombs to get you in the mood even more.

4. Massage:

You’ve probably had a long day to have sex with your partner. Sex itself is relaxing. But to make the activity even more relaxing, you can give your partner a good massage. Now this massage can be a mix of sensual touching as well as actually massaging, so your partner gets the message right and is actually aroused. Typically, you could massage any part of your partner’s body and arouse them, if done the right way.

5. Play some games:

By games, a good sensual roleplaying game would be the preferred suggestion. Every individual would have a fantasy that would surely turn them on. And, they would really want their partner to live as the fantasy character that they imagine. So, speak openly to them and take some effort to play dress-up to spice things up. In case their fantasy is a fictitious character, you can adorn a sexier version of the costume to make things even more exciting and enjoyable.

6. Food:

Of all humanity’s indulgence, two things top the list – food and sex. So why not put them together for a night to remember? Food used the right way in the bedroom, can lighten and relax any kind of inhibitions and insecurities before sex. Honey and chocolate sauce are some food items you can use in the bedroom for some action. Some food items like ice cream, shared with each other, can also make it easy to communicate to your partner that you’re in mood for some intimacy.