1. You don’t know who you are anymore
Your friends and family rarely know the “you” before you started dating. You spend very little time doing what you did earlier, be it shopping or chilling with friends. You just think endlessly about what has gone so wrong with your life that you feel empty and lifeless on the inside.
2. Commitments are thrust upon you!
If your boyfriend wants you to show signs of commitment really soon, then just walk out. You should be able to decide things for your own. If he thinks that you don’t love him enough just because you are not ready to take the next step yet, then it clearly means he’s not the one for you.
3. He’s Aggressive and Possessive
Ladies, by all means, it is NOT okay for a man to be aggressive towards you even if he always apologizes or cries like a baby after that. Showing his possessiveness and his anger by aggression is a clear sign that you deserve a better person.
4. You should be able to do your own thing!
You don’t need your boyfriend to parent you and tell you what to do and what not to. If you want a girl’s night out with some booze, you should be doing it. If you want to take a break from work and go for a movie alone, you should be doing it. Your boyfriend shouldn’t be around to boss you. He should be around to love you.
5. You don’t understand what you are doing with him!
If you want different things, you can still try to work out your differences and sustain a loving relationship. However, if you just plainly not able to relate to him anymore, then you need to rethink your decision. You can always love a person and not be in a relationship with them. It is one thing to love someone unconditionally and it is another thing to put yourself through misery and stick with them to prove that you love them.