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My Husband Did This To Me When I Was Six Months Pregnant!

Love and sex are not the same!

“I was shattered and hospitalized. I didn’t eat or sleep properly for so many days and stress was taking a toll on my health. I was completely fine but then suddenly this news had brought several complications to my health. A doctor advised me to take bed rest.Now I was on complete bed rest. He took good care of me, same as before. I can never forget the things he said to me then, ‘I love you more than before. No one can ever take your place. Love and sex are two very different things if you’re not emotionally involved.’

I was continuously juggling between my mind and heart. My heart wanted to forgive him, wanted to give one last chance to our 8-year-old relationship. But my self-respect and brain continuously stopped me from doing the same. What’s the guarantee he won’t repeat his mistake again? He can’t control his sexual urge for some months knowing that I am carrying his child. What is the guarantee he’d control himself in the future?

At the same time, when I thought about divorce, the face of my unborn child came in front of me. But one thing will haunt me for the rest of my life, that because of this child, my husband went away from me. Should I give him one more chance only for the sake of my child? At last, the choice is mine and I have to take the decision. I am an independent woman who can take care of myself and the child very well.

It is very hard to take the decision when two people are staying together and acting in front of everyone as if everything is normal. It’s the worst feeling in the world when you love someone deeply but don’t want to stay with him anymore.”

Somewhere in my mind, I guess I have decided to give him one last chance. You may say that I am a coward and I don’t have the courage to start afresh. I am not denying that but I am not taking this step only for my child but also for myself. I love him truly and only I know that.

It hardly matters now whether he went to other women for pleasure or revenge, he had sex once or more than that, the fact is that he went there. Maybe those things will haunt me forever. Life will never be the same again, it’s only hoped that’s keeping me in this relationship.”

“I am seven months pregnant now and upon seeing my health condition, divorce is not an option. I can only think about divorce once my delivery is done. Life will never be the same again whatever decision I take. Maybe I will forgive him and will give myself one last chance for the sake of LOVE. But will life go back to normal? Only time can tell.”

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