Relationships

6 Reasons Why Confessing To Your Partner About Your Ex Is A Bad Idea!

How much is too much?

It could poison your relationship

Let’s face it, most Indian men are still conservative deep down. They want to believe that they are their wives’ first love. They want to believe they are the best lovers. If they know that you’ve had a long list of lovers, it could fuel insecurity, suspicion and jealousy. They may suspect you of keeping in touch with your exes, or that you could have an extramarital affair. They could dredge your past when you have fights and throw it in your face. Do you really want that?

The truth can hurt

You may have the most understanding, loving, liberal partner. But if you’ve had a string of affairs, or your current boss is your ex-lover, or you’ve slept with your partner’s best friend…well, these are things you need to keep to yourself. Confessing these dark secrets will only hurt your partner, and therefore your relationship. Let bygones be bygones. Start your relationship with this wonderful man on a clean slate and find ways to work off your guilt without involving him or sabotaging your relationship.

Also Read: 10 Ways To Make Sure Your ‘In Laws’ Love You!

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