Letting off steam is always good. Not in an abusive way though! When you have unresolved issues in your head, it weighs you down; it affects your relationships, not only with your partner but with those around you. It affects your mood and even your productivity. Once you’ve had your say, you will feel so much lighter, so much better. You’re relieved of the stress of carrying things inside you.
You can look back and laugh
Some fights can be totally absurd – we’ve all been there and done that. Some silly issue can get blown out of proportion. Occasionally, one of you will behave foolishly; you could end up sobbing over a non-issue. You and your partner will look back on that fight and share a few chuckles. A guaranteed way to bond better!
You don’t take each other for granted
It happens, always. Taking each other for granted. As comfort levels increase, as the years go by, we fall into a pattern and get stuck in a rut. We think we know each other and never aspire to evolve the relationship. You may be feeling stuck; you may not like it that your partner never comes home on time or takes you for a holiday or surprises you with gifts anymore. That simmering resentment will come out in a fight and it’s an eye-opener for your partner. It helps to salvage the relationship from a stagnant rut.